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When Torah Asks Us to Take a Leap of Faith
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Parshat Ki-Teitzei

When Torah Asks Us to Take a Leap of Faith

Maintaining empathy for others when our own fears may be overtaking us.

This week’s parsha, Ki-Teitzei, features a list of diverse interpersonal relationships and their related commandments. The list is broad and includes commandments related to female prisoners of war, parents and children, husbands and wives, property owners’ responsibilities, and fair adjudication over matters of labor issues, as well as protections of the rights of the widow, the orphan and the stranger.

Some of the commandments have us nodding in agreement while other passages may challenge our sense of fairness and justice. However, amidst the myriad laws on interpersonal relations, the Torah includes two passages relating to “shilu’ach ha-kan,” the commandment that requires one to scare away the mother bird before removing her young birds or eggs from the nest, the rewards for which is a long life (Deut. 22:6-7). Longevity is also the reward for honoring one’s parents. These two precepts are the only ones in the whole Torah that include a reward.

The placement and purposes of these verses raises some curiosity.  There are a number of speculations that try to rationalize the purpose of this mitzvah. They range from showing compassion for the mother bird, a nod towards our own ethical values, to an acceptance that this commandment is a hok, a law for which the reasons cannot be  knowable to us. I know many people who seek out the opportunity to fulfill this commandment both because of its unusualness as well as because of the reward associated with it.

In the Babylonian Talmud, Aher (also known as Elisha ben Abuya) is a complex character who lived at the center of a number of unusual stories about what led to or reinforced his apostasy. When the rabbis discuss why Aher rejected his faith (Kiddushin 39b), they describe an incident where Aher witnesses a boy falling to his death. The son had climbed up on the roof at the request of his father to complete the mitzvah of shilu’ach ha-kan. Elisha ben Abuya, unable to comprehend how tragedy could befall someone who was doubly guaranteed longevity per the Torah’s promise, becomes a heretic. (In another passage in the Talmud, Chullin 142a, the rabbis explain that Elisha ben Abuya should have understood that the reward of “extending one’s days” applied only  to the World to Come.)

It can be argued that so many of the other laws in Ki-Teitzei create the underpinnings of a blueprint for a relationship-based society, which despite a hierarchical system also includes a strong sense of fairness, justice and consideration for the other. However, by including the mitzvah of shilu’ach ha-kan, the Torah also implies that in this legal system, one has to take a leap of faith to hold it all together.

Daphne Lazar Price

But what of those who lose their faith? What of those who witness or experience something so terrible, a trauma compounded because it is the exact opposite of God’s promise? Elisha ben Abuya, who embodies this dilemma, is cemented in our texts. He is not erased, but renamed. “Aher” means “other one.” In other texts, his name is also read as “Ahor” (backwards) because he turned his back on the law. When Elisha Ben Abuya dies, Rabbi Meir and Rabbi Yohanan debate whether his soul belongs in heaven because of his immense Torah knowledge, or if he should be relegated to hell because of his sins. Ultimately, Rabbi Yohanan’s soul atones for Elisha’s sins and he is released from hell to heaven. Later, Elisha’s daughter admonishes Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi to remember her father’s teachings, even if it means rejecting his deeds (Chagigah 15b). Redemption for Elisha Ben Abuya is not only possible, it is promised, and made evident to those who disparaged him.

This parsha is always read at this time of year, in the weeks before Rosh Hashana. The month of Elul is traditionally a time of introspection, a  month best used to assess our spiritual selves and take steps necessary to amend difficult or broken relationships. In these unprecedented times, this pandemic has created enormous challenges to individuals, families, and communities at large. The threat of continuing health concerns and loss of life, loss of income, disrupted schedules, continued distancing, halted travel, and overall instability are feeding frustrations and contributing to higher levels of anxiety. People’s patience is waning and frustrations are coming to the fore quicker and with more virulence. It’s enough to shake our own faith in the systems and safety nets that we have relied on and that have supported us. But above all, we need empathy for those who have endured some of the worst hardships during this time. Even when abiding by all the rules of law there will always remain the unknown that may shake our faith in its entirety.

Will we maintain faith in those around us? In the systems that are in place to care for us? Will we continue to maintain empathy for others even in a time when our own fears may be overtaking us? And how will our communities remember us if we fail?

Daphne Lazar Price is executive director of the Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance. For more Torah perspectives, read the JOFA blog.

 

Candlelighting, Readings

Friday, August 28, 2020

Elul 8, 5780

Light Candles: 7:16 pm

Torah Reading: Ki-Teitzei, Deuteronomy 21:10 – 25:19

Haftarah: Isaiah 54:1-10

Shabbat Ends: 8:14 pm

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