In Manhattan, Recovering From Lebanon

In Manhattan, Recovering From Lebanon

Israeli group brings soldiers to New York for group therapy and recreation.

Fifteen former soldiers selected by the Israel Defense Forces traveled to New York recently for a weeklong program to treat lingering trauma from their combat during the 2006 Lebanon War with Hezbollah.

An Israeli group called Peace of Mind organized the program, and the long distance — not just from Lebanon, but from Israel as well — is at the heart of its approach.

“In Israel, it’s not socially acceptable to talk about these experiences,” said Alon Weltman, an Israeli psychologist and director of the program who accompanied the soldiers during their visit.

Bringing them to the United States, Weltman said, was an effort to break that taboo and help them move beyond their traumas. The soldiers spent half of each day in New York in intensive group therapy.

Developed by the Israel Center for the Treatment of Psychotrauma, a nonprofit affiliated with the Sarah Herzog Hospital in Jerusalem and the School of Social Work at Hebrew University, the program asks the IDF to choose a group of soldiers for treatment and then finds international Jewish communities willing to take in the soldiers and foot the bill — about $55,000 —for the 15 soldiers and three psychologists. In this case, a group of Jews from Fire Island, a popular vacation spot on Long Island, covered the expenses.

Peace of Mind doesn’t treat soldiers with post-traumatic stress disorder, but helps soldiers realize that they may have repressed trauma from their wartime experiences that affect their everyday lives.

“Think of someone experiencing a sudden death of someone close,” Weltman said. “That person is dealing with a difficult experience but is not necessarily post-traumatic. He might not have the right tools to deal with this experience, though, and that is part of what we try to do in the program.”

The 15 men who came for the visit to America last month were platoon mates in the IDF’s 931st infantry regiment during the month-long Second Lebanon War and saw particularly tough combat, including urban fighting against Hezbollah militiamen in closed quarters.

“There were a lot of missions,” said First Sgt. Amit Ginat, who spent a year in physical therapy after being wounded by gunfire and grenade shrapnel.

Most of the platoon members were injured during the war. Months later they were civilians again, and their lives took different paths. Every so often they regrouped for reserve duty. But many could not leave the war completely behind them.

Capt. Yuron Edel is taken back to the combat zone by the smell of metal or Mediterranean herbs. Second Lt. Yoni Beck still wonders whether he could have saved his friends. First Sgt. Shay Shem Tobi says fireworks make him jumpy. Levy Forchheimer can’t listen to a particular song without remembering the friend he lost in combat.

“Everything since the war has changed. I try to avoid situations that remind me of the war,” said Tobi, who left Israel to travel when his service ended and recently started studying animation. For some of the soldiers on the program, the realization that the war still touches their lives felt like a revelation.

Other soldiers said they didn’t think they had lingering trauma.

“I wouldn’t like to think the war changed me,” Forcheimer, an American who served in the IDF, said near the outset of the program. “But I’ll find out.”

Edel said the program gave him concrete and immediate results.

“It gave me a feeling of lightness, having put the burden away,” he told JTA from Israel after the program had ended.

Weltman said Peace of Mind reduces the dropout rate for reserve duty and increases resilience to trauma, which he said is measured before and after the program. The IDF did not respond to a request for comment in time for publication.

For the Jewish communities hosting the soldiers, it’s an opportunity to learn and to help.

Barbara Messer, who helped organize the Long Island residents who sponsored and hosted the soldiers, said, “When they were coming, people were saying, ‘The soldiers are coming.’ But after they arrived they were just the guys — people who had been through a lot and who then became our friends.”

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